Miserable Monday 

so it’s been a very gloomy day today weather wise been raining all day which obviously has an effect on the children at work not being able to get outside and let off some steam and energy which was a shame for them. There was some upset and grouchy children to contend with that’d for sure! I felt alright and managed the full day at work without any problems, came home had tea did the usual daily tidying up tasks then an horrendous migraine took over. I am trying to decrease my venlefaxine tablets through help of the physiatrist but unfortunately one of the side effects is migraines which I have never had in my life. I never get headaches so migraines are somewhat of a shock to the system never experienced pain like it and I’m finding the only way of getting over them is complete darkness and sleeping it off. Does anyone else have problems with migraines and if so do you have any coping strategies that work that I could possibly try. It’s very difficult to carry on working when it happens at work but luckly it’s been really bad at work only once so hopefully it won’t happen at work but I want to be able to carry on as normal if it does occur. I would be grateful of any help on this. Hope everyone is doing ok . I’m so glad Monday’s  over! 

So it’s been a while 

a lot has been going on in my life recently some of the wedding plans are coming along nicely we have our date set our ceremony set and our reception venue set we are going to have a look around where we are going to tie the knot tomorrow and to ask a few questions and confirm things so excited for that. Unfortunately one of my childhood friends has decided to call it a day with me mutual decision though just don’t have time for petty pathetic arguments have far toomuch  going on and from what others are saying to me I’m certainly not in the wrong all I do is stand by my friends through everything and if they were in danger I would be there for any of them in a shot I’m a honest girl and always say my true feelings and I do get that sometimes being brutally honest with someone can hurt but then they appreciate your honest and respect you for it, we’ll all of my friends and family certainly to. I’ve learnt that life isn’t easy I have had many pitfalls in my life but many happy cherished memories too, and I certainly know that there will be ups and downs on the planning the wedding I know that and am prepared for them eventualities and I will have the support of the people that are my world and my rocks when I need them the most. I might only be able to count my best friends on one hand but it’s better to have a few trusted best friends then 30 or more acquaintances. Life has its ups and downs and everyone has there own journey and own worries and happiness to deal with. So we have to try and be strong to get on and deal with things come what may! Onwards and upwards!  


Update Monday 

I have had a very busy few weeks since the engagement life has been very busy we had a brilliant mini bbq in celebration and had catch up with family and friends we have both been spoilt with happy thoughts and good luck. This is the second week back at work but the first  Monday as last Monday was bank holiday. I work full days on Monday which I knew was going to be quite challenging. I spent my morning planning occupational therapy activities and trying to sort out groups and time allocation for the children, sorted my phonics box, sorted speech and language activities out for tomorrow’s session. This afternoon I was down to work in reception class which I had been looking forward to as I haven’t had the opportunity to meet all the new starters yet. I hadn’t been in the class long when called to have a meeting with one of my speech and language parents who got the wrong date and time but never mind I was able to go and have the meeting we needed. Then I was able to go back to the classroom and help out a bit more. I really enjoyed my day but I am absolutely shattered. And have a horrendous headache I’m hoping it’s just tiredness. But today is the first day of me having to reduce one of my medications with advice from the psychiatrist so I hope I’m not going to have bad withdrawal symptoms from reducing this. Hopefully everything will be okay and I continue doing well as everything seems to be slowly clicking into place again. Hope everyone else is having a good start to there week 😊

Amazing news

apologies for not posting for a while wow where do I start. Last Wednesday my boyfriend and I went away for a overnight trip to Leeds and stayed in a beautiful hotel unknown to me my boyfriend was planning on proposing that evening. We had a lovely day out at the national media museum and then spent our afternoon in the gym sauna jacuzzi and swimming pool at the hotel. I was ready to go down for our evening meal when my boyfriend proposed to me! It was the most romantic unexpected and completely unbelieve experience beyond my dreams! He picked the most beautiful ring himself and had kept everything secret the perfect surprise. All of our family and friends are over the moon and we’ve  celebrated with them a lot the last few days. We will be planning an official engagement party very soon. It hasn’t sunk in yet I don’t think it’s like an amazing dream at the moment and as though it’s not happening to me. Today was my first day back after the summer holidays it was none stop busy I have 8 new pupils added to speech therapy children I now have 23 children needing speech and language support. Well today has made me shattered I’m off to sleep now hope everyone has had a good day